National Same-Sex Marriage Imminent?

This week, the United States Supreme Court, in Luther Strange, Attorney General Of Alabama v. Cari D. Searcy, Et Al. On Application For Stay No. 14A840, refused to block gay marriages from being permitted in the state of Alabama and the dicta in one of the dissents of the Court's ruling seems to indicate that nationwide recognition of same-sex marriage may be imminent. In a 7-2 decision, only two justices, Clarence Thomas and Antonin Scalia, dissented in the Court's denying to stop homosexuals from obtaining marriage equality in the state of Alabama. Therefore, currently, 37 states and the District of Columbia allow same-sex couples to marry. As same-sex marriage is being recognized in the states at an alarming velocity many Americans are wondering if the Supreme Court is planning on making gay marriage recognized across the country when it rules on four (4) consolidated cases in June. Perhaps, comments included in Justice Thomas's dissenting opinion offers a sneak peek at the direction that the Court plans to take in June. In his dissention, Justice Thomas acknowledged that the Court's move to permit same-sex marriages in Alabama "may well be seen as a signal of the court's intended resolution." It is important to note that one of the key factors that the Court considers when deciding whether or not to put a hold on a lower court's ruling is the likelihood of success for the litigants if the case were to be appealed. Therefore, the Court's refusal to allow a stay on the ban of same-sex marriage in Alabama and other states that were recently similarly situated may indicate that the Court will find that same-sex marriage bans are unconstitutional in its ruling due in a few months. Same-Sex marriage became legal in New Jersey on October 21, 2013 following the decision in Garden State Equality v. Dow, N.J. 216, 314 (2013). Since that time, thousands of homosexual couples have received marriage licenses throughout the state. If you are an LGBT couple who plan on seeking a legal marriage or filing for a same-sex divorce or are simply someone who would like more information regarding the issue there are important factors that you should consider before doing so it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, same-sex divorce, same-sex relationship dissolution, equitable distribution, alimony, custody and visitation, or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and it is in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Historic U.S. Supreme Court Ruling On Same-Sex Marriage May Be Upon Us

Same-Sex marriage became legal in New Jersey on October 21, 2013 following the decision in Garden State Equality v. Dow, N.J. 216, 314 (2013). Since that time, thousands of homosexual couples have received valid marriage licenses throughout the state. From 2013 until the present, and since the Supreme Court struck down the federal definition of marriage in the Defense of Marriage Act in United States v. Windsor, the number of states that have come to legally recognize marriage equality has doubled. Currently, 36 states and the District of Columbia allow same-sex couples to marry and over 70% of the U.S. population currently live in a state where same-sex marriage is permitted or recognized. One by one, as the states legalized same-sex marriage many Americans began to wonder when and if the United States Supreme Court would take a case or cases that could lead to a nation-wide recognition of marriage equality. Legal theorists hypothesized that the Supreme Court may take up the issue once there was a circuit split in the U.S. Court of Appeals - well that time has come. Recently, the justices of the United States Supreme Court have granted review of four (4) pending cases in which the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit upheld bans of same-sex marriage and the recognition of out of state legal same-sex marriages in Ohio, Michigan, Kentucky, and Tennessee splitting with its sister circuit court. The cases are DeBoer v. Snyder; Bourke v. Beshear; Tanco v. Haslam; and Obergefell v. Hodges. The arguments will be heard before the Supreme Court sometime in April of 2015 and a decision on the cases is expected to follow in June. The high Court permits 90 minutes for attorneys to argue whether or not the 14th Amendment requires a state to recognize and or provide licenses for homosexuals to legally wed. Subsequent to the Court taking these cases, Attorney General Eric Holder announced that the United States Justice Department will file amicus briefs urging that the justices find that all individuals, gay or straight, have the right to marry. Therefore, it is very possible that gay and lesbian couples may be allowed to marry in any state in the United States by the end of the summer. If you are a gay or lesbian couple who plan on seeking a legal marriage or filing for a same-sex divorce or are simply someone who would like more information regarding the issue there are important factors that you should consider before doing so it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, same-sex divorce, same-sex relationship dissolution, equitable distribution, alimony, custody and visitation or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and it is in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Same-Sex Marriage: The Impact Of Windsor In America

The years 2013 and 2014 have ushered in great social and cultural change with regard to the status of same-sex marriage throughout America due in large part to the decision in United States v. Windsor, 570 U.S. 12 (2013). One year ago this week the United States Supreme Court decided the landmark Windsor case which struck down The Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) as unconstitutional and essentially held that gay and lesbian people in the United States should be offered the same rights and respect under the law that heterosexual people currently enjoy. This decision has had a profound impact on the status of marriage equality in America. DOMA was passed by Congress in 1996 and functioned to define marriage as a legal union between a man and a woman only - in the eyes of the federal government. After DOMA's passage, gay and lesbian married couples were officially denied all of the federal recognition and benefits that were afforded to straight couples who were married. When the Windsor case was filed in 2010, only five (5) states and Washington D.C. allowed same-sex marriage. When the United States Supreme Court rendered its decision in the case, twelve (12) states allowed LGBT people to marry. Today, nineteen (19) states, as well as Washington D.C., recognize same-sex marriages along with the federal government. Currently, 44% of the population of the United States have the right to marry a same-sex partner if they choose to do so. This reflects a remarkably fast cultural shift across this nation - a shift that will have long lasting effects on the legal atmosphere for decades to come. At present, there are many other states' courts and legislatures that are deciding issues regarding marriage equality and there may be even more states that recognize same-sex marriage by the end of this year. The rolling trend toward marriage equality in America is undeniable. Therefore, gay and lesbian couples who are contemplating marriage in New Jersey or any other state that now recognizes marriage equality should educate themselves on their new rights and legal responsibilities, especially if they were previously joined in a civil union or domestic partnership. If you are a gay or lesbian couple who plan on seeking a legal marriage, filing for a same-sex divorce or would like more information regarding same-sex divorce it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, same-sex divorce, same-sex relationship dissolution, equitable distribution, alimony, custody, visitation, or other family law matters in New Jersey visit DarlingFirm.com. This blog is for informational purposes and it is in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Lesbian Widow to Receive Death Benefits After Wife Dies While Serving in U.S. Military

Tracy Dice Johnson, a lesbian widow of an Afghanistan war soldier who was killed on duty, announced this week that the Department of Veterans Affairs has completed a review of her case and has determined that she is entitled to death benefits of her same-sex spouse. Tracy Dice Johnson is a member of the National Guard stationed in North Carolina and she has also served her country in Iraq. She married Sgt. Donna Johnson, who was killed in October 2012 when a suicide bomber attacked a checkpoint in Afghanistan. Tracy Johnson has been an advocate for the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), which had defined marriage as being between a man and a woman in the eyes of the federal government. Under DOMA, Tracy Johnson and other gay and lesbian war widows and widowers were not permitted to receive federal benefits from the government in the event that their spouse was killed on duty. In fact, when her wife was killed, Tracy was not even notified by the military, even though she was listed as Donna Johnson's "next of kin," because the military did not recognize her marriage as a valid marriage. As such, Donna's mother was first notified about her daughter's passing. In June of 2013, the United States Supreme Court struck down DOMA in United States v. Windsor, 570 U.S. 12 (2013). Since DOMA was overturned, the federal government and the military will now recognize same-sex marriages as being equal to those of heterosexual marriages and therefore gay and lesbian widows and widowers will not receive death benefits and all other benefits that were previously only available to heterosexual married couples serving in the military. Tracy Dice Johnson's benefits will be retroactive to the date that her wife was killed on duty - even though her untimely death occurred before the Supreme Court struck down DOMA. This is a significant event in the progression of same-sex marriages across the country and reflects a giant victory for those who support marriage equality. If you are a gay or lesbian couple who plan on seeking a legal marriage or filing for a same-sex divorce or would like more information regarding same-sex divorce it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, same-sex divorce, same-sex relationship dissolution, postnuptial agreements, prenuptial agreements or other family law matters in New Jersey visit DarlingFirm.com This blog is for informational purposes and it is in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

First New Jersey High Profile Same-Sex Divorce Could End in Reconciliation Agreement

What most likely would have been New Jersey's first high profile same-sex divorce appears to be heading toward a reconciliation and a legal agreement. Last month, world famous Olympic figure skater Johnny Weir and his husband, Victor Voronov, were all over the news with reports that they had announced that following a physical altercation they had decided to seek a divorce. In the days that followed the announcement there were reports that the two were already fighting over marital property, most notably their beloved pet dog. Lawyers were running to court to battle over the immediate division of property. If Weir and Voronov proceed to a divorce, New Jersey would be witness to its first high profile divorce since gay and lesbian citizens gained the right to legally marry in October of 2013. Although, most recently, Weir and his husband are reportedly attempting to make their marriage work through the use of a legal agreement that would specify how each is to behave in the marriage. The media has initially been referring to such an agreement as a postnuptial agreement, but this would be incorrect, and the agreement that Weir and Voronov may be contemplating would be called a reconciliation agreement. In the Garden State, such an agreement is a legal exchange of promises between spouses made during the pendency of the marriage to protect property and rights if a divorce were ever to occur in the future. The primary distinction between a postnuptial agreement and a reconciliation agreement is that a reconciliation agreement is drafted and executed during a marriage after problems have surfaced to the point that the couple has considered seeking a divorce. On the other hand, a postnuptial agreement is an agreement made by spouses during the marriage to protect property upon a significant change in the assets or income of one party - before there is a marital rift or disintegration. A reconciliation agreement's purpose is to compel each party to make certain promises or concessions as a means to attempt to fix an already broken marriage and encourage a peaceful reconciliation. Reconciliation agreements are typically enforceable in court as long as they are fair to each party at the time they are executed and when they are to be enforced. Nicholson v. Nicholson, 199 N.J. Super. 525 (App. Div. 1985). If you are a gay or lesbian couple who plans on seeking a legal marriage or filing for a same-sex divorce or would like more information regarding postnuptial or reconciliation agreements it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, same-sex divorce, same-sex relationship dissolution, postnuptial agreements, prenuptial agreements or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and it is in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Special Considerations For Same-Sex Divorce

The state of New Jersey has recognized marriage equality since October of 2013 and now that same-sex marriage is legal in the Garden State many people may begin to wonder what considerations need to be realized regarding same-sex divorce. One of the first things that a gay or lesbian couple must consider is if they entered into a civil union prior to their marriage how the civil union, which is a legal agreement, may affect them if they decide to divorce. Based upon the new N.J. Department of Health policies, same-sex couples who were previously joined in a domestic partnership or civil union do not need to dissolve these partnerships as a prerequisite to marrying in this state - provided that the spouses who were joined in either of these two legal relationships are marrying each other and not someone new. Ultimately, because the legal marriage does not function to dissolve the prior domestic partnership or civil union, the gay couple remain in two distinct legally valid unions - the marriage and the civil union or domestic partnership. If the relationship sours and the couple decides to obtain a divorce, they must remember that both the legal marriage and the other legal partnership must both be terminated. Each legal union brings certain rights, entitlements, and responsibilities to the relationship and therefore terminating only the marriage does not release a party from the obligations that flowed through the prior civil union or domestic partnership and vice versa. Therefore, LGBT couples who are planning to apply for a marriage license should take the time to discuss whether or not they should address the issue of their civil union prior, during, or after their marriage as there may be consequences that result from either allowing the legal partnership to remain in affect or by dissolving it. If you are a homosexual couple and have questions regarding what legalities you should be aware of regarding your same-sex marriage or divorce it is imperative that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, same-sex divorce, same-sex relationship dissolution, alimony, equitable distribution or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Same-Sex Couples May Invoke Marital Privilege in Federal Court Proceedings

In its recent memorandum regarding changes to federal law concerning the recognition of same-sex marriage, the United States Department of Justice indicated that same-sex spouses will now be able to invoke marital privileges in both federal civil and criminal cases. The rights now extended to gay and lesbian married couples will affect both the confidential communication between spouses as well as testimonial communications. The confidential communications privilege protects all of the substance and contents of the confidential communications made between spouses during the duration of their marriage. The testimonial privilege, under certain circumstances, protects a spouse from being compelled to testify against his or her spouse in court proceedings. Prior to the new federal policy, only heterosexual couples could assert these privileges. According to the Department of Justice memo, for the purposes of asserting the aforementioned privileges, it will consider a marriage to be legally valid if the same-sex marriage was conducted and is recognized in a jurisdiction that recognizes marriage equality. It is very important to note that these privileges will not be extended to homosexual couples who are currently joined only in a domestic partnership or civil union. As more and more states begin to recognize marriage equality across the nation, many state and federal laws are quickly adapting to accommodate the rapid social and legal changes that follow. It is very important to remain informed and up to date on these rapidly changing developments that will continue to have an important impact on the state and federal laws throughout America. If you are a gay or lesbian couple who plans on seeking a legal marriage or filing for a same-sex divorce it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, same-sex divorce, same-sex relationship dissolution, alimony, child support, custody, visitation, civil union, or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and it is in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Recent Expansion of Federal Same-Sex Marriage Rights and Benefits

This week the United States government expanded the recognition of same-sex marriage rights to include situations such as bankruptcies, survivor benefits, and prison visits. This reflects yet another way that gay and lesbian legal rights are continuing to spread throughout the federal and state governments. This expansion of rights includes the remaining 34 U.S. states that still have not legalized gay marriage. In these states, the aforementioned federal benefits will only be extended to areas where the federal government has jurisdiction. For instance, a homosexual couple who was legally married in New Jersey can now become involved in a federal bankruptcy case in any of the 34 states who have not yet recognized marriage equality. Before this week, the federal government could challenge a same-sex couples' joint bankruptcy in states that do not recognize same-sex marriage. This new expansion of federal benefits also impacts LGBT married partners' ability to gain visitation rights for spouses incarcerated in federal prisons. It also extends survivor benefits for spouses of police officers and firefighters killed in the line of duty as well as the legal benefit and right to not be compelled to testify against a spouse in federal courts. The legal landscape for gay and lesbian individuals throughout the nation is changing at breakneck speeds. As social benefits and privileges continue to expand for homosexual people, everyone needs to remain up-to-date on how the expansion of marriage equality and social benefits legally impacts their lives. As the number of same-sex marriages increases in New Jersey, unfortunately and inevitably, so will the number of same-sex divorces and all of the issues associated with a legal divorce such as child custody, parenting time, equitable distribution, child support, and alimony - just to name a few. If you are a gay or lesbian couple who is dealing with any of these legal issues it is extremely important that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, same-sex divorce, custody, child support, alimony, parenting time, equitable distribution or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney

Same-Sex Marriage Offers Tax Equality

As marriage equality is spreading across the country, GLBTI couples are beginning to realize the many benefits that same-sex marriage affords them. One of the most important and advantageous benefits of the legalization of same-sex marriage is the favorable tax treatment for the parties in the event of a divorce. Before New Jersey began permitting homosexual couples to legally wed, gay and lesbian couples were only allowed to enter into a civil union or domestic partnership. Although New Jersey's laws regarding the dissolution of a civil union or domestic partnership are virtually the same as the laws that govern a heterosexual divorce, the laws of the federal government are very different. For instance, when same-sex parties end their NJ civil union, alimony or spousal support payments are typically categorized as gifts for the purposes of filing federal taxes which exposes the parties to a higher tax liability than legally married couples. Further, the exchange of assets between parties in equitable distribution was considered a taxable event under federal tax laws. On the other hand, in the context of legalized same-sex marriages, alimony payments result in equalized tax treatment for the parties. The party who is required to make alimony payments to his or her ex-spouse is permitted to take a federal tax deduction for their payments, which is a benefit for that party. The party receiving the alimony sum is required to file the payments as taxable income when reporting to the federal government. In addition, the exchange of assets and property during the equitable distribution phase of the divorce is not considered to be a taxable event under federal tax laws. Overall, as the number of states that recognize marriage equality continues to increase, many more homosexual couples whose legal marriages end in divorce will be able to realize some of the federal tax benefits that have been available to different-sex couples for decades. Whether a couple is involved in a same-sex or heterosexual relationship a divorce is a very complicated and emotional process. If you are a gay or lesbian couple who is battling in a same-sex divorce it is imperative that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before proceeding. For more information about same-sex marriage, divorce, dissolution, alimony, equitable distribution or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney

Will the New Jersey Marriage Equality Bill Become a Law in 2014?

The year 2013 brought many social changes, one of the most important being the legalization of same-sex marriage through a New Jersey Superior Court judicial ruling, but will the New Jersey Marriage Equality Bill became a law in 2014? In October of 2013, a New Jersey Superior Court judge, the Honorable Mary C. Jacobson, J.S.C., ruled in Garden State Equality v. Dow that prohibiting same-sex marriages in New Jersey violated homosexual individuals' equal protection under both the United States Constitution and the New Jersey State Constitution. Governor Chris Christie withdrew his challenge after the New Jersey Supreme Court refused to grant a stay and indicated that it would uphold the lower court's ruling. Same-sex marriages have been legally conducted in NJ since the end of October 2013, but the Marriage Equality Bill still has not been codified into law. Lawmakers have been unable to agree on all of the issues that are involved with the implementation of marriage equality and therefore the bill that would codify marriage equality into law has not been passed. Please note that this does not mean that gay marriages are not legal in NJ because they are, but the Marriage Equality Bill has not been passed into law. One of the main areas of dissention among lawmakers has been the issue of, if and how, to grant exemptions for churches and the clergy who refuse to perform lesbian, gay, bi-sexual or transgender marriage ceremonies due to their religious beliefs and tenets. Under the current, proposed Marriage Equality Bill, there is an exemption for religious groups to allow them to deny same-sex marriages based upon the First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution. The bill also specifies that religious groups cannot be forced to provide space, services, or privileges related to marriage if LGBT marriage violates their religious beliefs. The legal issues that are involved are very complex and lawmakers will continue to debate the substance and structure of the Marriage Equality Bill in the ensuing weeks and months. At this time, it is difficult to predict whether or not the Marriage Equality Bill will become New Jersey law in 2014. If you are considering entering into a same-sex marriage or if you are contemplating obtaining a same-sex divorce it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before moving forward. For more information about same-sex marriage,divorce, same-sex relationship dissolution, civil union dissolution or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Same-Sex Divorce

As more American states begin to recognize marriage equality, the laws of each state must evolve to anticipate same-sex divorce. Marriage equality, or the recognition of same-sex marriage, is currently permitted in seventeen states: California, Connecticut, Delaware, Hawaii, Iowa, Illinois, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Minnesota, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, Rhode Island, Vermont, Washington, and the District of Columbia. The recognition of gay marriage in these states may result in difficulties for the parties if and when they decide to divorce, especially if they live in any of the states that do not currently recognize marriage equality. Many issues may arise for gay and lesbian couples who file for divorce after being joined in a legal marriage in the states in which they live. For instance, all divorces in the states of Massachusetts and New Hampshire are viewed equally and therefore same-sex divorces are treated exactly the same as heterosexual divorces. However, certain issues may arise that can complicate same-sex divorces. For example, if a LGBT couple lived together for 25 years before the state permitted them to legally marry and that state considers the length of the marriage when deciding issues regarding division of assets and property, the only time that a court will look to when it makes decisions concerning equitable distribution will be the time that the couple was legally married . Which, in the aforementioned example, is much shorter than the time that the couple was actually together obtaining joint assets. The laws in the state of New Jersey are also continuing to evolve and as time progresses may become more sensitive to the unique legal issues that same-sex divorce presents to the parties involved, such as the issue presented in the example above. If you are currently in a same-sex marriage and you anticipate that you may be contemplating filing for a divorce it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced attorney before moving forward. For more information about same-sex divorce, child custody, divorce, parenting time, equitable distribution, or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney

Status of LGBT Parental Rights

As many more states continue to recognize marriage equality and same-sex marriage, it has become a hot topic across America leading many people to ask - what is the status of LGBT parental rights? There are gay and lesbian parents who were previously in heterosexual marriages but have divorced and are now having a very difficult time securing legal protections that permit them to maintain relationships with their children. Although marriage equality is now recognized in 16 states in America, the laws that govern the right to legally marry are different from the laws that govern parental rights. Therefore, even if a state recognizes marriage equality same-sex parents may not be receiving the same family protections as heterosexual parents. For instance, many states still do not allow LGBT, or more specifically transgender people, from adopting a child. Therefore, if a transgender person engages in a relationship with an individual who has children from a previous relationship, in most states, the transgender person will not be able to adopt the children - even if that person is legally permitted to marry his or her significant other. For transgender individuals this harsh fact prohibits them from realizing the family lifestyle that they so desire. In another example, many transgender men and women are finding that many state laws are creating significant impediments for them to gain visitation rights over their biological children because their status as parents, upon becoming transgender, is compromised by the laws of many states. This, compounds with the fact that many others in society and within their own families may choose to make it difficult for the transgender person to see his or her child, solely based upon the fact that the family disagrees with their choice to change their gender. Over time, the laws across the states will evolve and adapt to social change, this is evident in the fact that more and more states are beginning to recognize marriage equality at an ever-increasing velocity. The statue and protections of transgender parents will most likely follow this trend. If you are an LGBT individual and you anticipate that you will become involved in a child custody and/or parenting time dispute it is critical that you seek out the advice of an experienced family law attorney before moving forward. For more information about child custody, divorce, parenting time, or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com and NJCivilUnionLaw.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

NJ Will Recognize Out of State Same-Sex Marriages

In the wake of the NJ Superior Court decision Garden State Equality v. Dow and the legal drama that ensued leading to New Jersey's recognition of same-sex marriage, many gay and lesbian couples have new questions regarding the status of same-sex marriage in this state, including the validity of out of state same-sex marriages. To assuage questions such as this, the NJ Department of Health and Human Services has released a statement to address the this specific issue. In its statement, released earlier this month, the Department of Health confirmed that NJ will recognize and honor the validity of same-sex marriages that were performed and validated in other states that previously recognized same-sex marriages. Therefore, for gay and lesbian couples who may be wondering if they will be required to get re-married in NJ in order for the state to officially recognize their marriages, the question has been answered. Same-sex couples who were legally married in other states do not have to re-marry in New Jersey for the state to recognize their legal union. On the other hand, LGBT couples who were legally joined in a civil union will have to legally "re-marry" in NJ for their marriage to be recognized by the Garden State and federal government to receive the marriage benefits from each. Unfortunately for couples joined in a NJ civil union, the Garden State Equality v. Dow decision did not provide for the automatic conversion of civil unions into marriages. As the weeks and months wane on following New Jersey's recognition of same-sex marriages, the legislature and legal communities will continued to refine and clarify how the laws of the state will evolve and adapt to include same-sex marriage recognition. As more and more same-sex couples apply for marriage licenses in the state, there is no doubt that additional questions will surface that need to be clarified and resolved as New Jersey embraces marriage equality. For more information about same-sex civil union, same-sex relationship dissolution, divorce, adoption, child custody, alimony or other Family Law matters in New Jersey visit NJCivilUnionLaw.com and HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Civil Unions Are not Automatically Converted to Marriages In NJ

As a result of all of the recent and swift changes in New Jersey regarding same-sex marriage, many gay and lesbian couples who previously joined their lives in a civil union, are wondering if their civil unions will be automatically converted to marriages under New Jersey laws. Unfortunately, the answer is, no. New Jersey civil unions will not be automatically converted into state-sanctioned marriages. The fact that civil unions do not automatically convert to legal marriages can have significant consequences on the legal status of same-sex spouses throughout the state. This past summer, the United States Supreme Court struck down portions of the Defense of Marriage Act, effectively allowing same-sex couples, who were legally married in the states where they lived, to receive federal benefits as a married couple. The United States Supreme Court specified that civil unions are not recognized by the federal government and therefore do not entitle couples to receive federal benefits under the ruling. New Jersey Superior Court Judge Mary Jacobson held last month that same-sex couples are not afforded equal protection under the laws of New Jersey because they are not afforded the same privileges and rights as heterosexual married couples. Quickly thereafter, as of October 21, 2013, New Jersey began to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples offering the opportunity to obtain all the protections and rights afforded under the laws pertaining to heterosexual couples who choose to marry. The Superior Court's ruling offered no direction pertaining to the status or validity of same-sex civil unions or whether they would be converted to marriages by operation of law. Therefore, couples in viable civil unions seeking the status of married couples must still obtain a marriage license and participate in a formal ceremony to obtain the state and federal benefits afforded to legally married spouses. The benefits to members of the LGBT community already in civil unions who now enter formal marriages include tax benefits, social security benefits, and immigration rights, they must file to obtain a marriage license. If you have questions regarding the status of a civil union in New Jersey, the implications and validity of any existing support or promissory agreements prepared between yourself and your spouse or other matters which may be affected by the approval of marriages by the NJ courts you should consult you consult with an attorney experienced in both civil union law and traditional family law to ensure you are protected. For more information about same-sex civil union, same-sex relationship dissolution, adoption, alimony, child support, custody or other Family Law matters in New Jersey visit NJCivilUnionLaw.com and HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Same-Sex Marriage Begins In NJ, Are Civil Unions A Thing Of The Past?

Yesterday, October 21, 2013, gay and lesbian couples in communities throughout New Jersey received hope that Civil Unions may be a thing of the past and as marriage ceremonies and celebrations began at sunrise. These couples believe it is likely that, going forward, same-sex civil unions will no longer be the lesser option available to members of the LGBT community who wish to express their love for their partners with the same rights and protections afforded heterosexual couples. Many same-sex couples throughout the state rushed to be among the first to effectuate their marriages after a New Jersey Superior Court Judge's ruling effectively allowed New Jersey to join the 13 other states that recognize gay and lesbian marriages. Going into the weekend, many of these couples did not even know if their ceremonies would take place as the New Jersey Supreme Court unanimously rejected Governor Christie's request to push back the date for the implementation of the same-sex weddings. The governor requested that the New Jersey Supreme Court overturn the trial court's ruling, effectively delaying same-sex weddings, until an appeal could be heard on the issue. Although the Supreme Court agreed to hear the appeal in January 2014, it rejected the request to overturn the lower court's ruling. On Monday, October 21, 2013, Governor Christie announced that he is dropping his appeal to overturn the lower court's decision. The governor stated that he decided to drop the appeal because the Justices of the New Jersey Supreme Court have made it clear they would rule in favor of gay marriage in January if they were to hear the case. Therefore, as of yesterday New Jersey became the 14th state in the United States of America to recognize same-sex marriage. Is this really the end of the battle? Time will tell. In the meantime, LGBT couples will still have the option to engage in civil unions as a means to legally validate their love. Couples are not required to engage in a marriage ceremony under the recent developments within the state. Civil Unions will continue to offer same-sex couples an option to legally join their lives. Whether they will have to be ratified later in order to receive the full protections enjoyed by married couples is unknown. If you have questions regarding the protections afforded by civil unions in New Jersey it is important for you to consult with an attorney with experience in this area of the law. For more information about same-sex civil union, same-sex relationship dissolution, or other family law matters in New Jersey visit NJCivilUnionLaw.com and HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Can A Second Parent See The Child After Termination Of A Same-Sex Relationship?

In New Jersey, many may wonder about what happens to the second parent in the event that same-sex couple's relationship ends. In truth, since New Jersey does not recognize marriage equality, if the couple were raising a child, this situation may cause a problem. The legal status of the non-legal or non-biological parent may be jeopardized when it comes to issues of child custody. When heterosexual couples break up, the courts will intervene to order an equitable resolution to child custody issues. Same-sex couples do not automatically have these legal protections available to them. In some instances, the courts may even find that the second parent in the dissolved gay and lesbian relationship has no rights even if he or she has spent years raising the child. In fact, courts may be inclined to award full custody to the legal/biological parent who would then have the legal authority to prevent the second parent from having any contact with the child that he or she loved as though the child were their own. The Family Court has the discretion to render decisions based upon what is within the child's best interests. Therefore, some courts may award an LGBT second parent with some visitation rights if it is found that the second parent was such an important figure in the child's life that it would be within the child's best interests to maintain a relationship with the second parent. In many cases, these second parents have served the responsibilities of being a full parent to the child and depriving contact with the child would likely result in more harm to that child than good. Further, the court may look to such factors as 1) the duration of the relationship between the same-sex parents and how long the child was a part of the second parent's life before the parties' relationship ended; 2) whether the natural parent nurtured the relationship between the child and the second parent and 3) whether the second parent assumed the duties of child rearing to an appreciable degree. In sum, the answer to the question "What happens to the relationship between the child and a second parent when a same-sex relationship ends" is not one that is easily answered. To protect their parental rights a gay or lesbian second parent should adopt. In the alternative, although providing less security for their rights a parent, they may wish to enter into a parenting time or custody agreement with the legal/biological parent to provide guidance for the courts in the event that the relationship one day dissolves. If you are involved in a custody dispute, whether in a same-sex or heterosexual relationship, it is critical that you seek advice from experienced legal counsel. For more information about civil unions, parenting time, custody and visitation, child support, same-sex relationship dissolution or other family law matters in New Jersey visit NJCivilUnionLaw.com and HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Same-Sex Couples And Adoption

As the landscape of the family dynamic is changing across America, gay and lesbian couples are petitioning the courts in increasing numbers to adopt children and build their families. There are many different situations and social configurations that can lead a same-sex couple or partners to seek adoption. For lesbian partners not in civil unions at the time of the child's birth, one spouse may have given birth and the other may seek to adopt the child as a second parent or step-parent adoption (if the state where the couple resides permits such adoptions). Gay men may desire to do almost the same thing, either by using a surrogate to give birth to a child or by adopting a child through other means. In addition, in states that permit such, gay and lesbian couples may try to jointly adopt children so that both partners become the legal parents of the child at the same time. Joint or second parent adoptions may not be a potential option for many same-sex partners in the United States because some states continue to disallow same-sex partners from adopting children together. In New Jersey, same-sex couples are allowed to adopt a child together, whether it be a joint adoption or a second parent adoption. Additionally, as is the case with married heterosexual couples, New Jersey grants legal parent status to gay and lesbian birth partners when a child is born of a legal civil union. Still, it is recommended, even in these situations, that the non-biological parent seek a step-parent adoption to ensure that the legal rights of that parent are recognized if they were to travel to a state that does not recognize gay and lesbian relationships. Further, there may be options for gay and/or lesbian partners who cannot or do not wish to legally adopt a child. The parties can execute a legal parenting agreement indicating that although only one partner is the legal parent of the child, the other partner has certain rights and obligations over the child that effectively make them a parent. As the social scheme and dynamic of the structure of the "traditional family" continues to evolve, the law will reflect the changes and provide more options for gay and lesbian or couples who wish to adopt or co-parent children during their relationship. For more information about Same-Sex Civil Union, Dissolution, Adoption, Parenting Time, Custody and Visitation, or other LGBT Family Law matters in New Jersey visit NJCivilUnionLaw.com and HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

Same-Sex Marriage Debate in New Jersey Rages On

The debate on the same-sex marriage continues to rage on in the state of New Jersey in lieu of recent developments in the New Jersey judicial system. Last year, the New Jersey State Legislature passed a Marriage Equality law that would have allowed same-sex couples to marry in the states, but at that time, Governor Chris Christie vetoed the bill and temporarily ended the debate. On Friday September 27, 2013, New Jersey Superior Court judge Mary Jacobson ruled that same-sex couples in New Jersey must be allowed to get married, beginning on October 21, 2013. According to Judge Jacobson, gay and lesbian couples are being denied equal rights under the law and therefore must be allowed the right to marry just like heterosexual couples. If the state were to issue marriage licenses to same sex couples on October 21st, they would have all of the same state and federal benefits that heterosexual couples enjoy. Many marriage equality supporters from around the state joined together in celebration of Judge Jacobson's ruling, but does her ruling truly end the debate? The answer is, no. Governor Christie has stated that he will appeal Judge Jacobson's decision. Typically, the Appellate Division would first have to hear a challenged case, but in this instance state lawmakers and the governor have asked the New Jersey Supreme Court to consider the matter, circumventing the Appellate Division. On October 2, 2013, Governor Christie asked the judiciary to delay the enforcement of Judge Jacobson's order until the appeal can be decided by the Supreme Court. Judge Jacobson's ruling is the first of its kind since the United States Supreme Court released its ruling that the federal government cannot deny federal benefits to married same-sex couples. Judge Jacobson based her opinion in part on that United States Supreme Court decision. It is still too early to predict how Judge Jacobson's ruling will impact marriage equality in the state of New Jersey. Ultimately, this latest development proves that the debate over same-sex marriage in this state is still a hot topic and is far from over. With the legislature, the judiciary, and the governor all weighing in heavily on the debate over the past few years, the only certainty with regard to issues of same-sex marriage in New Jersey is that people throughout the state feel very passionately about the issue. Whether the legal status of same-sex marriage changes soon or not, has yet to be decided. If you are seeking to enter into or dissolve a civil union, there are ways to protect yourself and your partner under the existing laws by entering into contractual agreements where the law falls short of offering you protections offered to heterosexual married couples. For those in the LBGT community who are in long-term relationships and cohabitating, it is important to consult with experienced legal counsel regarding the steps you should take to protect your present and future interests under NJ Law. For more information on same-sex civil union, dissolution, divorce, custody, visitation, child support or other family law matters in New Jersey visit www.NJCivilUnionLaw.com and HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney.

NJ Same-Sex Marriage After Supreme Court Strikes Down DOMA

The Supreme Court of The United States of America has struck down the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), which denied federal benefits to same-sex couples who are married, in civil unions or other forms of union recognized under state law. The President 's administration stated it would quickly move to ensure same-sex married couples get the same federal tax and other benefits that heterosexual married couples receive. It is still up to the individual states to determine if they will recognize same-sex marriage. In New Jersey, the Supreme Court of New Jersey in its opinion in the 2006 case of Lewis v. Harris, 188 N.J. 415 (2006) held that it is unconstitutional to deny same-sex couples the same rights and benefits that heterosexual couples are given and held that the State could either amend the marriage statutes to include same-sex couples or enact a parallel statutory structure by another name in which same-sex couples would enjoy the same rights and benefits and bear the burdens and obligations of civil marriage in the State of New Jersey. The State Legislature established civil unions which do not qualify as "marriage" under the Federal Laws. Governor Christie has made it clear he does not support same-sex marriage. He vetoed a marriage bill passed by the legislature and voiced his disfavor with the Supreme Court's ruling striking down DOMA. He stated he wants the issue left up to the voters of New Jersey. Many in the State Legislature are trying to override Governor Christie's veto. If you are in a same-sex relationship in New Jersey and are interested in protecting or providing for your partner you should consult with an experienced family attorney. For more information about same-sex relationships, palimony agreements, cohabitation agreements, child custody, visitation, dissolution, divorce, child support or any other type of family law matter in New Jersey please visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes only. It is not intended to replace the advice of an attorney regarding your specific matter.

Proposition 8 in the U.S. Supreme Court

After the first day of the United States Supreme Court hearings relating to same-sex marriage, as they considered California's Proposition 8 ban on same-sex marriage, little is known about what the Supreme Court will decide. In fact, from Justice Kennedy's comments, whether the Supreme Court will decide the question of Proposition 8 at all is on the minds of those following this issue which will make so much difference for so many. Yesterday's comments by Justice Kennedy regarding the Court's need to tread lightly when entering "uncharted waters" and that reference to the destination in the court's decision being "a cliff" left some believing that the U.S. Supreme Court may dismiss Proposition 8 and leave the issue of gay marriage to the states for at least another year. If the Supreme Court dismisses the matter of Proposition 8, only California would be affected. Gay and lesbian marriages in California could proceed but the issue of same-sex marriage in other states would not be impacted. The statements of the Justices will now weigh on the minds of many until June when the decision is expected. Today the Supreme Court will hear arguments as to whether the 1996 federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) should be struck down. DOMA denies federal benefits to married gay and lesbian couples even in states where same sex marriage is recognized and accompanied by the benefits thereof. As of now, 30 states have constitutional amendments which prohibit same-sex marriage and there are only 9 states which recognize same-sex marriage. For more information on civil union, marriage, domestic partnership, pre-nuptial agreements, post-nuptial agreements, palimony agreements, dissolution, divorce, child support, custody, parenting time/visitation, adoption, modifications, alimony, palimony or other family law matters in New Jersey visit HeatherDarlingLawyer.com. This blog is for informational purposes only and in no way intended to replace the advice of an attorney regarding your specific matter.