Psychological Parent Seeks Rights

In A.O. v. N.D., the court determined whether the plaintiff, designated the "psychological parent" of defendant's biological child was entitled to a plenary hearing with regard to an alleged agreement granting joint custody and ordering the parties to attend co-parenting therapy. The parties and the child lived together until the child was four. Plaintiff sought parenting time, custody and a designation as the child's psychological parent and the parties agreed in some regard. The parties agreed to designate an expert to produce a parenting schedule but there was continued conflict in regard to the parenting issue and plaintiff sought joint legal custody and mandatory co-parenting therapy. Defendant refused to sign a consent order giving effect to plaintiff's wishes. Plaintiff filed an application to enforce the unsigned consent order or for the court to order the same relief plaintiff sought in the consent order and defendant opposed. Defendant also acknowledged making his fiancee', not the plaintiff, the child's emergency contact. The judge denied the plaintiff's motion to enforce an unsigned consent order or grant a plenary hearing in light of the lack of evidence an agreement had been reached. The judge found no change in circumstances on which to grant plaintiff's relied but did order the parties to attend a co-parenting class. Plaintiff appealed, arguing the court erred in failing to order a plenary hearing to determine whether a verbal agreement had been reached. The NJ Appellate Division cited to numerous cases in rendering their judgment that the party seeking to enforce an agreement bears the burden of first showing some evidence of the existence of an agreement. The Appellate Division determined that, as per Harrington v. Harrington, 281 N.J. Super. 39 (1995), the agreement need not be reduced to writing to be enforceable. However, the Appellate Division also cited to the fact that an attorney's negotiations are not binding on a client unless the attorney has specific or apparent authority to enter into the settlement. U.S. Plywood Corp. v. Neidlinger, 41 N.J. 66 (1963). No matter the representations of defendant's counsel during negotiations, defendant's refusal to sign was evidence that an agreement did not exist. A designation as "pyschological parent" does not necessarily afford one the rights of a biological parent. Psychological parent is term used in many matters, from the case at hand to same-sex relationships where the non-biological parent failed to adopt to grandparents rights. If you are seeking, or trying to prevent, a designation of "psychological parent", it is critical that you obtain the advice of counsel. For more information about custody, parenting time, child support or other issues relative to children, visit DarlingFirm.com or call to schedule a consultation. This blog is for informational purposes only and not intended to replace the advice of an attorney.